The Slow Down Fast Happiness Trilogy
3 Steps to Happiness from David Bohl
Dear Friend,
Do you ever feel like life is controlling YOU, instead of the other way around?
Have you ever wished that you could just scrap it all? Trash the project of your life and start over
from scratch? Maybe do some things differently, like...
- Make more time for your kids
- Express what you really think at your job
- Build a business based around your passion
- Travel more, experience more, worry less
- Simply be who you are... live, and let live?
I've found this is a lifestyle model that stumps many. There's a disconnect between the life they wish they had, and the one they're willing to pursue in reality.
Here's the reason for the disconnect. From early on, we are programmed into thinking in only one way:
You must be emotionless, perfect, power-driven and wealthy to fit into society's version of what real success is.
But who is anyone to tell you what your life should or shouldn't be? The truth is that success is best measured on our own terms. And "The Secret" - the mystery that everyone is whispering about behind closed doors? I'm going to tell you what it is right now.
Come closer.
Everything you need to define and live out the perfect life for you is within yourself, waiting to be discovered.
Did you read that line, carefully? Did you believe it?
It's the truth. And I know this, because I lived it. I was once just like you.
A life out of control: does this sound like you?
Back in the 80's, I launched a business that became one of the largest and most profitable in its market, in a span of just seven years. I became an instant success... but I had to work twice as hard just to maintain that level of success. I was putting in 100 hour weeks, dividing my time between New York and Chicago... working hard, playing harder, and pushing myself to the extreme.
The truth was, I was sorely missing out on the important things. My wife and two young children. Resting, enjoying life, having hobbies. My health. All these were fading into the background - and at the rate I was going, it was looking like they'd soon fade to black.
One day I woke up on a plane, completely disoriented. I had no idea what day it was, or what city I was flying to. In a panic, I summoned the flight attendant, who helped me get my bearings. And that's when it hit me. My life was controlling me... and I was out of control.
That day, I vowed to make a change. Not just think about it, or talk about it, but really take steps to undo what I'd done. I wanted to be there for my family. I wanted to quit the behaviors that weren't serving me. I wanted to un-program the "Be More, Do More" mentality that had impressed itself into my psyche.
I wanted my life back.
Do you want your life back, too?
Think it's an impossible dream?
Think again.
These days, I live a much happier and more fulfilling existence. I spend time with my wife and kids, and I pursue interests of my own choosing. I make my own work hours. I take time off when needed. And above all, I treat my body like the sacred temple it is.
Today, I have a different kind of business - I'm a Certified Life Coach. I like to call myself a Lifestyle Designer, because I help people begin living their best lives - not some one-size-fits-all, contrived happiness.
Today, I help others arrive at the place where I struggled to get to in my own life for so long.
It took me half a lifetime to really learn how to slow down and appreciate the good things. But I want you to know... if you're feeling deeply unsatisfied, I know exactly where you're coming from. It doesn't have to be that way!
And I also want you to realize the slowness of the process. When I say "Slow Down FAST," I mean exactly that. It won't take an hour, a day, or even five months, to redesign your life.
I can't tell you HOW long it will take. It's different for every person, and it's your own journey. But I do know what the PROCESS will be if you really want this for yourself. Would you like the short answer, right here?
Changing your life for the better is going to require that you:
- Devote considerable time to serious self-introspection.
- Analyze and assess every facet of your current life.
- Develop a personal mission statement which will become the concrete foundation of your new life.
- Carve out the blueprint for your future.
- Set S.M.A.R.T. goals.
- Gradually transform those goals into habits.
- Be willing to modify the plan as needed.
- Take it one day at a time.
- Make sure you have an accountability partner.
Most people will attempt this on their own at first. But the truth is that if you're buried up to your neck in your own chaotic life... it's going to take another person to help dig you out.
Maybe that helper could be a family member or friend. Except that friends and family are usually too caught up in the success and status mentality that we're trying so desperately to break free from.
They don't understand. Why are you doing this? What about that great job... shouldn't you just be thankful for what you have?
This is where coaching comes in.
If you're really serious about making major changes, you'll want an objective partner in success. Sometimes it's just good to talk to someone whom you don't have to censor yourself to, or justify your choices.
Here are some things a coach can help you with:
Getting support and guidance during career change
I offer one-on-one, private life coaching to help you transform your "dream" into the ideal life for you. But for those who don't feel ready to dip a toe in the coaching waters... I've worked hard to develop a system that I really think you're going to like.
It's my 3-part series: The Slow Down Fast Happiness Trilogy. I've developed this step-by-step, self-examination and process to help steady your footing on the path of change and keep you burning a new path to bigger and better things for you.
Each book is a stepping stone to the next. Once you've complete the series, you'll be ready to embark upon the next exciting phase of your personal development plan. Begin to live the dream!
If you act now, you can purchase ALL 3 components of the Happiness Trilogy for just ONE low price.
Part 1: Your Life In Balance
If you prefer "self-coaching" to having a collaborative partner, then this is the e-guide for you. This comprehensive, 68-page e-guide encourages you to think about your own life from different perspectives. Read and discover:
What you may be holding onto in your life unnecessarily and how to rid yourself of these energy-drainers.
How to bring your true beliefs to the surface in order to focus on what a balanced and meaningful life looks like to you.
How to create your own unique work-life balance using a very using a very underrated yet highly efficient technique.
How to break through the 'shoulds' and focus more on the 'wants'. Forget what others are doing or thinking, be who you are and live who you are.
How to take back control of your life. You are the driver on this journey!
... and much more
Read what others have to say about
"Your Life In Balance"
Download a preview sample of Part 1 here
Part 2: Your Personal Mission Statement
Here, you'll learn the exact reasons why every Highly Effective Person has his or her own personal mission statement, plus the guidelines for creating your own. This e-guide explains:
Why corporate mission statements work to drive productivity, and how the same method can impact your own life for greater output and success.
How the personal mission statement can help you ditch those old, outdated conventions and behaviors. Make way for a newer and better way of living!
The difference between a personal mission statement and a goal, and why you need both on the process to self betterment.
You'll also find:
A sample mission statement from my own collection. Use it as inspiration!
In-depth questions to help you identify your passions, desires and motivations.
Tools and tips for developing a personal mission statement that will be the basis for your future goals and new life.
Download a preview sample of Part 2 here
Part 3: The Goal Book
This e-guide includes practical, step-by-step instructions for goal setting, easy to grasp examples, and bonus hands-on exercises for creating your own goals. The Goal Book from SlowDownFast.com will help you:
Achieve more in less time. Learn why it's so critical to develop goals as a means of reaching your full potential.
Know a good goal when you meet one. Identify the 5 characteristics of a perfect goal - one that will feasibly work in the real world.
Develop solid goals in your own life. Practice creating practical goals that will help you get where you want to be!
Overcome goal-setting setbacks. Discover the reasons why so many people fail at achieving their goals - and how you can avoid making the same mistakes!
Avoid Goal Overwhelm. Master the art of breaking your big goals down into small, manageable chunks.
Set and attain goals without thinking about it! Devise a goal development system that runs on autopilot and works to move you closer to living your dream lifestyle.
Implement a proven system for setting goals. Start using our goal setting guidelines and exercises immediately in your own life - then integrate them as a permanent part of your routine.
Download a preview sample of Part 3 here
The Happiness Trilogy: a Special Rate for David Bohl Readers
I'm offering this to you at a special price because it's important to me to see you make lasting improvements in your life. I've thrown my whole heart into this material. It would give me the greatest pleasure to know that it has made a significant positive impact on your future.
3 Steps to Happiness, Success and Fufillment:
- Your Life in Balance ($37.00 value)
- Your Personal Mission Statement ($9.97 value)
- The Goal Book ($17.00 value)
$63.97 when purchased separately
Trilogy price: Normally $47.00
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I'm excited to see you move through new and welcome changes in your life. I can't wait for you to know how it feels to carve out a more balanced and fulfilling life and lifestyle... the one you've always dreamed of having!
Sincerely,
David B. Bohl
Husband, Father, Friend
Life Coach and Lifestyle Designer
Slow Down Fast
